This Moment

{this moment}

A Friday ritual inspired by SouleMama. A single photo – no words – capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.
If you’re inspired to do the same, leave a link to your ‘moment’ in the comments for all to find and see.

Glass Dharma GIVEAWAY

So I’ve been eyeing these straws from glass dharma for a while now.  I’ve been hesitant about ordering glass straws since my kiddo and I are total klutzes- though I adore all things glass. E has been great with her Silikids cups and even her glass plates, so I thought it was time to venture to the world of glass straws. And wow, I’m so mad I waited so long!

glass dharma began when David Leonhardt saw the need for replacing plastic straws. “I created the GlassDharma line of glass drinking straws and this website to contribute one solution to the misuse of plastics in our society,” said David.  McDonald’s stated in 2008 that they sell 52 MILLION value meals a DAY- so think about how many straws are just sitting in landfills right now not decomposing! Yuck… That’s not even counting non-value meals bought, other food places that straws are used, plus straws that are used at home.

Another yucky fact is that using plastic straws means that you are drinking out of a petroleum based product which could have toxins. When you use glass straws, you don’t have to worry about any toxins leaching into your beverage because there are none! You can get a in depth review about plastic straws from The Soft Landing. 

glass dharma makes a variety of glass straws for every type of beverage/glass. Here are a few images from their site so you can see the different widths and lengths.

Who knew there could be such an assortment of straws?? When I got my straws in the mail I was in awe. They are seriously a work of art! They are sleek, stylish, and BEAUTIFUL!! My favorites are the decorative dots. As E put it, “they are fancy straws.” You can get them in red, green, blue, or amber in a sipper or ice tea diameter.  We were lucky enough to get to try both diameters in the decorative dots!! I was scared to hand over the blue sipper to E because it is too pretty to break!

Then I read that all glass dharma straws come with a lifetime guarantee against breakage!! If for any reason the straw should break you can return it to be fixed or replaced. Note- the guarantee doesn’t mean they are not breakable. 🙂  But with the guarantee, I felt like I could hand E the straw and carry on.

I was also sent a smoothie straw and ice tea decorative dots and beautiful bends straw.

The smoothie straw is a bit too big for me. I like the smaller ice tea diameter- but I also have very tiny thin lips. It took several drinks before I got used to the glass feel around my lips, but I now that I’m used to them, I really love the straws! I can’t wait to order a straw set for Christmas!

This is from the glass dharma site about the type of glass the straws are handmade with:
“Borosilicate glass is a type of glass with the main ingredients of silica and boron oxide. Borosilicate glass is most well known for having very low thermal expansion, making it resistant to thermal shock, more so than any other common glass. It is also non-porous and Hypo-allergenic. Borosilicate glass was first developed by German glassmaker Otto Schott in the late 19th century.  Borosilicate glass is often used for high-quality beverage glassware and kitchenware (a popular brand name is Pyrex®). Borosilicate glassware has increased durability and has microwave and dishwasher compatibility. It contains no lead.”

I feel very confident letting my 4 yr old use the straws. I would even hand them over to a toddler now that I’ve used them for a couple of weeks. You can get the straws online at glass dharma anywhere from $6.50-$12 and sets from $28-$69. They are seriously worth every penny!

Now on to the GIVEAWAY!!
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*I was sent the reviewed items at no charge. This in no way alters my opinions. These are my thoughts, opinions, and results.

Yo Gabba Gabba Live Review

I can’t believe that it is already November! We had so much fun in October time flew by way too fast. Saturday we got to go Yo Gabba Gabba Live and it was a blast! I took E last year and we were able to meet the crew. I was wondering how this year would top last- and it totally did!

There were quite a few of the same songs and dances as last year, but who doesn’t like, “Party in My Tummy,” and “Get the Sillies Out!” This year was much more interactive which was tons of fun. We were out of our seats dancing 85% of the time. And I’ll have to admit, I was kind of sad it was only a hour and a half show! But the parents behind us who had a 11 month old said it was perfect timing for them. 🙂
My favorite part of Yo Gabba Gabba Live was Biz Markie’s Biz’s beat of the day. Biz invited some kids to the stage to try to do various beats. Of course they were adorable. Then Biz broke it down into a 5+ minute set that was awesome. I remember listening to Biz in the late 80’s and 90’s, so it was pretty cool to see him live playing for kiddo’s. 
E’s favorite part was when the leaves started falling and it snowed. It was during the “Fall Song.”
I was thrilled Leslie Hall was at the show again! She is so much fun. 
Also Mark from O.A,R. was the Dancey Dance special guest which was neat because I saw him in concert later on that evening. 🙂 

There are many stops left on the Yo Gabba Gabba Live Tour. Check here to see if they will be visiting your area soon!

*I was given tickets to the show for free. This in no way alters my opinion. These are my thought, views, and opinions. 

This Moment

{this moment}

A Friday ritual inspired by SouleMama. A single photo – no words – capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.
If you’re inspired to do the same, leave a link to your ‘moment’ in the comments for all to find and see.


Howl-O-Fest Boo Blast at Carowinds

We had the best day at Carowinds and their Howl-O-Fest’s Boo Blast!

I was only aware of Scarowinds (which is Carowinds turned into a haunted amusement park at night) until Thursday when I was told about the kids version- Howl-O-Fest’s Boo Blast.  It is tucked away at the side of the main entrance of Carowinds near the amphitheater and is loads of fun for everyone!

Starting at 12 p.m., Howl-O-Fest’s Boo Blast activities begin. Your kiddo can meet Charlie Brown and friends, plus some other friendly costume characters; play in a Foam Pit; go through the Great Pumpkin Patch maze; pick a (free) pumpkin from the Mumpkin Patch; play ghostly games; get their face painted; color; and more! I was really impressed E zipped right through the maze by herself.

Starting at 2 p.m. there is trick-or-treating in the Boo Blast- plus in 5 other areas in the park. You are given a Boo Blast Treasure Hunt map to find the treasures throughout Carowinds. There are other special events going on at the Boo Blast at different times like the Fraidy Cat Show, Kiddie-oke, Peanuts Dance Party, and the attraction closes with a Costume Parade at 4:45 p.m.!

Howl-O-Fest’s Boo Bash would make an excellent pre-Halloween party to take the kiddos to next weekend! October 29 and 30th are the last 2 days Carowinds is open until Spring 2012. Howl-O-Fest’s Boo Blast is truly the perfect farewell to the amusement park fun.

We spent around an hour and a half at the Boo Bash then headed into the park to ride the fun rides.  E  got to experience her first front seat roller coaster ride- and now she is hooked!

If she was tall enough, she would have been on the upside down roller coasters. 🙂 She was 2 inches too short to ride some of the rides when we visited in April, so we waited the perfect amount of time before returning.

Throughout Carowinds, there are skeletons and other Halloween decor. The super scary stuff that is saved for Scarowinds was closed down so the kiddos couldn’t see. But there were some graveyards, broken skeletons, ghosts, grim reapers, and creepy clowns- which were very frightening to me! (I am terrified of clowns.) There was also a Boo Blast ride where you have a “boo blaster” to aim and shoot the ghosts which wasn’t very scary. E laughed and said it was like Ghost Busters.

If you are in the Charlotte area, I highly suggest checking out Howl-O-Fest’s Boo Blast at Carowinds before it closes! If not this year, definitely check it out next year.

*I was given free admission for this review. This is no way alters my opinions. These are my thoughts, feelings, and results. 

Tropical Traditions GIVEAWAY

This giveaway has ended. Thanks to all that entered! Congrats to Erin N.!! 

There is nothing like homemade potato chips, fried zucchini, fried ravioli, and fried chicken. We very rarely eat fried foods, but I usually get a craving once a week. We were using a “smart oil” but then I realized it wasn’t organic and contained canola- which means it could be made with GM canola. I switched to olive oil, but not only is it expensive, it leaves the food with a weird taste. I’ve heard a lot about coconut oil over the past several months, so I finally decided to see what all of the hype is about.

I have several foodie friends who are pretty incredible people. They eat very strict diets and I look up to them for the choices they make. I asked them what was the best coconut oil and they told me to try Tropical Traditions. They also told me to buy by the gallon because it’s worth it and saves money in the long run. But since I had never truly tasted coconut oil, I asked Tropical Traditions if they’d like a review.

I was sent the Gold Label Virgin Coconut Oil to review and I’m now hooked for life!

When I opened the bottle, I was intrigued by the texture of the oil. It is firm until you warm it. You can sit the jar in warm water or you can scoop a spoonful out and heat on the stove to get a liquid. I have fried, steamed, baked, made fruit drinks, and even ice pops with the coconut oil! I now use it at least once or twice a day. I LOVE the flavor the oil gives the food!! And the health benefits are amazing! I’ve read that coconut oil can boost your metabolism, can provide energy which can help promote weight loss, raise body temperatures, and has other healthy benefits. Coconut oil is also rich in lauric acid which is also found in mother’s milk! Lauric acid supports the body’s immune system, so some people think if you eat 2-4 tbs of coconut oil a day you can help fight/prevent colds.

You want to cook the oil at a lower temperature when frying. I mixed a little bit of organic soy when I was steaming the coconut oil with chicken. Here are some of the yummy dishes I’ve created using the Tropical Traditions Gold Label Extra Virgin Coconut Oil:

Chicken, pineapple, coconut oil, soy, red pepper, spinach, cheese, in a whole wheat tort
 Tomato sauce, tomato paste, italian seasoning, garlic, 1 tbs coconut oil. Ravioli, rolled in coconut flour & panko fried in coconut oil. 
 Pumpkin cookies with coconut oil
Fried chicken in coconut oil
The possibilities are truly endless! And Tropical Traditions has a webpage with TONS of coconut oil recipes. This is from the Tropical Traditions website about the Gold Label
“This Tropical Traditions Gold Label Virgin Coconut Oil is a truly unrefined coconut oil. This coconut oil is made on Mt. Banahaw and surrounding areas from organic coconuts. Coconuts are used fresh (within 24-48 hours of harvest) from small family farms on Mt. Banahaw and other rural places in Quezon Province, the coconut capital of the Philippines. Only the highest quality coconuts are hand-picked from each harvest. The volcanic soil of Mt. Banahaw makes these organic coconuts some of the most nutritionally rich coconuts in the world! Testing done in independent laboratories reveals higher levels of phenolic antioxidants than other coconut oils. The fresh coconut meat is shredded (wet milled), and then cold-pressed using the water from inside the coconuts to make coconut milk. The milk is then allowed to sit for about half a day, while the oil naturally separates from the heavier water. The oil is then filtered from the curds (coconut solids). No chemical or high-heat treatment is used, and this oil contains notrans fatty acids. We do NOT mass produce this oil. It is made by families who are coconut farmers using old-fashioned traditional methods that have been used in the Philippines for hundreds of years. Our coconut trees and family producers are certified organic according to strict USDA standards. The families who produce the oil are also trained according to GMP (Good Manufacturing Practice) standards and re-certified each year. This high-grade Virgin Coconut Oil has a long shelf life due to the high antioxidant properties. The Gold Label Standard is our highest standard for Virgin Coconut Oil.”


As E would say, “try it, you’ll like it!” I highly recommend trying Tropical Traditions Gold Label Extra Virgin Coconut Oil. I can’t wait to try some of their other products! Tropical Traditions has organic foods, skin care items, supplements, household items, pet products, and tons more! Tropical Traditions also has amazing weekly deals so you can get great discounts and sometimes even free shipping! 
GIVEAWAY: Tropical Traditions would like to give 1 lucky reader: 

Rules: You have until 11:59 p.m. EST November 6, 2011 to enter. The winner will be chosen by random.org and announced after they respond to the winning email. The winner has 48 hours to respond to the winning email, or a new winner will be chosen. You must leave your email address! This contest is open to the US and Canada


How to Enter:  Tell me a coconut oil recipe you want to try! Go Click on “Comments” to leave your post. Make sure to leave your email address!! I cannot contact the winner without it!


EXTRA entries:  You must complete the “How To Enter” before making any extra entries. Make sure you leave a comment for each extra entry and tell me which one.

2. Become a fan of Mkokopelli on FB, Follow Mkokopelli on Twitter, Follow my blog on GFC, Follow on tumblrFollow me on Networked Blogs (1 entry for each one)
3. Subscribe to my blog by email (on the right sidebar) You must verify and be active at the time of the giveaway- those who are unverified will become disqualified (3 entries)
4. Blog, Tweet, or send a message on FB and leave a link here (1 entry per day)
7. Subscribe to the Tropical Traditions newsletter (3 entries)
8. Tell me another Tropical Traditions product you’d like to try

*Disclaimer: I was sent the item reviewed free of charge. This in no way alters my opinion. These are all my thoughts, results, findings, and opinions. 

This Moment

{this moment}

A Friday ritual inspired by SouleMama. A single photo – no words – capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember.
If you’re inspired to do the same, leave a link to your ‘moment’ in the comments for all to find and see. (sorry I cheated- we’ve been busy & I ❤ Fall!)


Pregnancy and Baby Loss Remembrance Day

I’ve been dreading this day for the past 2 weeks. I’ve been working with Earth Mama on their newsletter and Facebook pages for the last week about loss and it’s been really hard- yet extremely therapeutic. If you haven’t followed my blog for very long, you might not know that I lost twins earlier this year. I went through the “losing them” process twice before I finally had them surgically removed in March. I have now lost 6 angels.

With my previous miscarriages, I never fully grieved. Don’t get me wrong, each and every loss took a piece of me, but I buried the sadness. No one tells you how to grieve or how you are supposed to feel when you lose a baby at 6-9 weeks. People who haven’t experienced a loss might undermine your feelings which can make you feel like your grief is invalid- especially if your loss was early on. I’ve recently heard many stories of this happening. It was easier for me to hide the pain and move on.  But the problem with that is that it always comes back in different subtle ways.

This miscarriage was different because I knew from the beginning I might lose them. For one, I was high risk and two, at the first early ultrasound showed no fetal pole. We didn’t see the second sac until the 2nd ultrasound. I didn’t tell many friends or family members just because I thought it would be easier for everyone. I began to bleed 2 days before Christmas and just assumed it was a full miscarriage since it was exactly like my last 4. I tucked away my grief yet again so my daughter wouldn’t see my pain during the holidays.

I looked at websites recommended from the Healing Hearts grief resources webpage, but wasn’t ready to find comfort in them and other people’s stories. Earth Mama Angel Baby had sent me a care package with Harmony Tea, a Light of My Heart Candle, and Healing Heart Mist which were soothing. But I knew I was about to break, so I sought out a guru to teach me how to meditate. My goal was to learn how to control my thoughts and to just be silent. There was so much going on in my world that my inner voice was soo loud. I needed peace to have the strength to face this loss.

At the time I didn’t want to face the fact that I “lost” the twins- so much in fact, I put off going to the Dr. for the final check up for another month. I was gaining strength from the mediation, so I made an appointment to get checked out in early February.  The ultrasound showed they were still there- undeveloped. I opted to finally take the meds they had offered me in November when we saw the fetal poles had stopped growing. During this, learning how to meditate became a chore instead of a therapy. I couldn’t keep silent enough to meditate. My third week on the miscarriage drug, I began to bleed heavily which put me in the ER.

This was one of the worst experiences of my life. The staff was cruel, heartless, insensitive, jerks- I could go on. When I told them I was miscarrying I was asked, “could you be pregnant?” “what makes you think that are you pregnant?” I mean seriously! I didn’t even have a Dr. look at me until 4 hours after we had been there and I had soaked through 6+ pads. When the radiologist told me the sacs were gone, I argued that no, I see them right there. Even 2 other Dr.’s looked at the ultrasound and said they were gone. Of course no one listened to me. I was sent home with nothing. No I’m sorry’s, no literature about dealing with grief from a loss. Nothing.

3 days later I showed up at my Dr. and asked her to do another ultrasound- that I knew they were still there. So they did, and they were. They scheduled a D&E for the next week. I was numb/crushed that I had to go through this a third time. I have lost my other angels from 6 weeks-19 weeks and this was my first D&E. After the D&E I still wasn’t given any literature or sources for grief. I have a huge problem with this and want to start something to educate hospitals and Dr.’s. Honestly, if it weren’t for Earth Mama, I would have never known there were grief sites dedicated to pregnancy loss. I have no clue why I never Googled it- but I didn’t.

After my surgery, I went back to work the next day. Granted- I worked from home. I started the bury the pain- again- because it was too sad and hurtful to really feel. I was learning peace then I lost them two more times. I have lived comfortably numb for the past 7 months, focusing on life and how to get through it. Trying to breathe and find peace. On their due date, I lit the Light of My Heart Candle and said the prayer included. I also planted 2 trees for them.

Mama Melinda challenged me to help with the Earth Mama newsletter that was dedicated to Pregnancy and Baby Loss Remembrance Day. I’ve been preparing myself for the past couple of weeks- terrified of putting my story on paper. I am a writer- yet I haven’t been able to find words to describe what I went through until now. And I am forever thankful that she gave me this task. I feel like a weight has been lifted- especially since I haven’t shed a tear while writing this. I want to share my story in hopes someone out there reads it and knows they aren’t alone. I want to do more- but first I want to heal. Take a deep breath and carry on.

If you know someone who has lost a baby- no matter at what stage- reach out to them and let them know you are here to listen if they need to talk. I’ve had 2 friends lose a baby & and another friend lost her toddler this week. Miscarriage and baby loss are sadly common, yet no one wants to talk about them. If you don’t know what to say, check out the Healing Hearts page dedicated to “What Do I Say.” 

You can read My Story on Earth Mama’s website and see my Q&A with Jhene Erwin writer/director of the short film The House I Keep.

Thank you Melinda. (and now the tears start…)

Smartwool PhD Outdoor Light Crew Review

I am a proud member of Blogtricity and was thrilled when they told me about the Appalachian Outdoors Smartwool PhD Outdoor Light Crew women’s socks up for review. Wool is an amazing fabric- especially with its wicking properties. Wool is also sustainable and I’ve read that Smartwool is very friendly to their sheep!

Appalachian Outdoors has been providing excellent outdoor clothing since 1974. They sell clothing and equipment for snowsports, hiking, climbing, fitness, travel, and more.

The women’s PhD Outdoor Light Crew is one of Smartwool’s most versatile outdoor socks. Whether you are hiking, biking, running or just walking around town your feet will be comfortable all day long.”

PRODUCT FEATURES:

  • 4-Degree Fit System for all-day performance fit
  • WOW™ technology in high density impact zones to reduce shock and abrasion
  • Merino wool inside for moisture, temperature and odor control
  • Duroyarn reinforcement for added comfort and durability
  • Strategic mesh zones for maximum ventilation
  • 76% Merino Wool, 23% Nylon, 1% Elastic

Ok, to be honest, I was really scared to try them on when they first got here. I have sensory processing disorder and scratchy materials (even tags!) really bother me. Instead of putting the Smartwool PhD Outdoor Light Crew socks on right away, I washed them and added some Ecover fabric softener. When I took them out of the wash, they were sooo soft. But after they were air dried, they were scratchy again. But, for the sake of the blog I put them on.

I am in love! The merino wool feels completely different on my feet, so I will just keep them away from my hands. 😉 The Light Crew Socks are tight on my feet and feel like warm soft slippers. My feet haven’t become sweaty when wearing them, even in warmer weather. I can’t wait to go hiking in them! The socks go up to my mid-calf and offer support from top to bottom. I highly recommend!

You can get the Smartwool PhD Outdoor Light Crew socks at Appalachian Outdoors for $19.95.

*disclaimer- Appalachian Outdoors sent me the Smartwool socks at no charge. This is no way alters my opinion- these are my personal thoughts & results. 

YO GABBA GABBA LIVE- GIVEAWAY

This giveaway has ended. Thanks to all that entered! Congrats to Susan!! 

It’s time to dance!! In 2 weeks E gets to go see YO GABBA GABBA LIVE! THERE’S A PARTY IN MY CITY, presented by Kia Motors, in Charlotte and we are beyond excited! Last year we had a blast! You can read my review of the 2010 tour here. Of course any time I get the chance to review anything YO GABBA GABBA related, I jump on it. I love the social lessons, songs, art, and uniqueness.

YO GABBA GABBA LIVE is visiting 50 cities this tour! This is from their website: “Yo Gabba Gabba! Live! is going on the road again! The It’s Time To Dance! Tour Presented by Kia Motors is traveling to more than 50 cities! But this time, it’s an all new show. Come see all your favorites like DJ Lance RockBrobeeFoofa,MunoPlex, and Toodee, with special guests Hip Hop Legend Biz Markie and Razzle Dazzle Superstar Leslie Hall. You won’t want to miss it!” 

Check out what’s left on the tour:

October 14
New York
Beacon Theatre
October 15
New York
Beacon Theatre
October 16
New York
Beacon Theatre
October 18
Scranton, PA
Scranton Cultural Center
October 19
Norfolk
Chrysler Hall
October 21
Charleston, WV
Municipal Auditorium
October 22
Richmond
Landmark Theater
October 23
Greensboro
War Memorial Auditorium
October 25
North Charleston, SC
 North Charleston Performing Arts Center
October 26
Columbia, SC
Township Auditorium
October 28
Charlotte
Ovens Auditorium
October 29
Charlotte
Ovens Auditorium
October 30
Atlanta
Fox Theatre
November 1
Raleigh
Progress Energy Center for the Performing Arts
November 2
Knoxville
Tennessee Theatre
November 4
Memphis
Orpheum Theatre
November 5
Tulsa
BOK Center
November 6
Kansas City
Music Hall
November 8
Denver
1st Bank Center
November 9
Salt Lake City
Kingsbury Hall
November 11
Vancouver
Queen Elizabeth Theatre
November 12
Seattle
Paramount Theatre
November 13
Seattle
Paramount Theatre
November 15
Sacramento
Memorial Auditorium
November 16
 Reno
Reno Events Center
November 18
Fresno
Save Mart Center
November 19
San Jose
San Jose Civic Auditorium
November 20
San Diego
San Diego Civic Theatre
November 22
Bakersfield
Rabobank Theater
November 25
Los Angeles
Nokia Theatre
November 26
Los Angeles
Nokia Theatre
November 27
Las Vegas
Orleans Arena
November 29
El Paso
Abraham Chavez Theatre
November 30
 San Antonio
Lila Cockrell Theatre
December 2
Houston
Verizon Wireless Theatre
December 3
Dallas
Verizon Theatre at Grand Prairie
December 4
Austin
Cedar Park Center
December 6
New Orleans
Mahalia Jackson Theatre
December 7
Tallahassee
Tallahassee Leon County Civic Center
December 9
St. Petersburg, FL
Mahaffey Theater
December 10
Fort Lauderdale
Broward Center
December 11
Fort Lauderdale
Broward Center
You can find more information plus get tickets at:  www.YoGabbaGabbaLive.com

GIVEAWAY: YO GABBA GABBA LIVE would love to give 1 lucky reader a special CD/DVD that is only available on the tour!! The CD is the Music Is Awesome Vol 3 disk (available on Amazon) but the DVD is a LIVE show at the L.A. Nokia Theatre which can only be purchased at YO GABBA GABBA LIVE. 

Rules: You have until 11:59 p.m. EST October 29, 2011 to enter. The winner will be chosen by random.org and announced after they respond to the winning email. The winner has 48 hours to respond to the winning email, or a new winner will be chosen. You must leave your email address! This contest is open to the US 



How to Enter:  Tell me if YO GABBA GABBA LIVE is coming near you! Go Click on “Comments” to leave your post. Make sure to leave your email address!! I cannot contact the winner without it!

EXTRA entries:  You must complete the “How To Enter” before making any extra entries. Make sure you leave a comment for each extra entry and tell me which one.

2. Become a fan of Mkokopelli on FB, Follow Mkokopelli on Twitter, Follow my blog on GFC, Follow on tumblrFollow me on Networked Blogs (1 entry for each one)
3. Subscribe to my blog by email (on the right sidebar) You must verify and be active at the time of the giveaway- those who are unverified will become disqualified (3 entries)
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